Falling in love is amazing.. I remember the feeling very well you constantly think about this person.. U feel the need to talk to them all day even when they made you angry they still the only thing you think about.
Being in love and being loved are 2 different things… being loved means someone else gets a warm fuzzy feeling inside when they think about you, they are willing to fight for you either to keep you or to get you, they never want to let go they never loose hope they want to make you happy.
Love is AMAZING.. I know everyone has a lot to say about love.. it could be about Romantic Love, Friendship Love, Family Love.. all Love is amazing. Knowing you can count on someone for anything, they never get tired of you and your bad habits and they are able to tolerate them.. that for me is the greatest feeling ever..
I think our generation look at love in a different way.. we don’t value the ones who love us the most instead we look at material things more or rather first, instead of looking at what the person can offer you emotionally.. the person is willing to dedicate his or her life to and for you.. but the first thing we do is betray them, use them and hurt them .. mostly we take them for granted and we do this repeatedly. I need to know what will happen to our grand children? because we are able to hear great stories about love from our grandparents.. what stories are we going to tell our grand kids? that you never had the chance to find true love because your generation was too self absorbed.
This trend “We love those who don’t love us and we ignore those who love us” I think its an excuse because one feels like they have so much choices.. my Mom once said to me “You learn to love someone” this is what had happened to her when she met my late father.. she explained to me that the first time they met she never loved him she didn’t even think they would date she thought he was just being ambitious.. but years later they had kids and my Mom loved him like she has never loved before..
So our generation will we ever “LEARN TO LOVE SOMEONE” or we just going to keep repeating what we are constantly doing taking people who love us the most for granted?
Today I was watching the TV series “Shameless S04E07” and for the first time ever I heard feral resorption and my jaw dropped.. so what happens is your pregnant with twins or triplets if the other baby isn’t strong enough they get eaten by the other fetus I mean this is crazy and creepy at the same time..
[I wanted to post pics but they too uuuhhhmmm I can’t even say :( ]
but this is the Wikipedia definition:
The occurrence of this phenomenon is sometimes referred to as twin embolisation syndromeor vanishing twin syndrome (VTS), since the 1980s when twin pregnancies were made visible early on by means of ultrasound.
Occasionally, rather than being completely reabsorbed, the dead fetus will be compressed by its growing twin to a flattened, parchment-like state known as fetus papyraceus.
If the fetus is absorbed completely, there are usually no further complications to the pregnancy, other than first trimester vaginal bleeding. However, if the event occurs in the second or third trimester, serious complications may include premature labor, infection due to the death of the fetus, and hemorrhage. Even at the end of the pregnancy, a low-lying fetus papyraceus may block the cervix and require a cesarean to deliver the living twin.
The vanished twin can die owing to a poorly implanted placenta, a developmental anomaly that may cause major organs to fail or to be missing completely, or there may be a chromosome abnormality incompatible with life. Frequently the twin is a blighted ovum, one that never developed beyond the very earliest stages of embryogenesis.
Brian Andreas, Story People (via impetrate)